Non hormonal birth controls?

I don't know about you people but I am SO SICK of my doctors and nurses not listening to me and pushing all these birth controls at me! When I'm off any type of birth control my periods are very heavy and I don't feel right for a long time. I'm sleepy and depressed and don't want to do anything. Also, I'm sensitive to all meds and I always tell them that. First, they put me on Seasonique and insisted it was good for me even though I argued. My hormones are so delicate, just like the rest of my system and I go completely crazy when they're tampered with. I bled every day for 3 months and did nothing but cry. Nothing my boyfriend did made me happy and it was a strain on our relationship. Then they made me go on Nuvaring and I literally went nuts. I went from excited and happy, suicidal, angry, depressed and devoid of emotion back and forth for weeks. Sometimes my mood changed by the minute. Not to mention I had no sex drive at all. What should I do? We've been using condoms but he doesn't stay hard because he can't feel anything through them and neither can I. What a mess :( Has anyone else had these problems?